The Market of Masks
Modern dating often feels like a mirage built on performance. People curate masks and present them like products. Most interactions start to feel like choosing a costume instead of meeting the person underneath. Identity shifts toward what gets likes, matches, and approval, and the real self gets pushed aside. Stepping away from that system helped me understand what I actually value. I prefer honesty, presence, and emotional awareness over the fast and curated nature of digital connection. This essay is my reflection on how masks shape our interactions and why authenticity still matters.
The Body as Symbol: How Fitness Shapes the Mind and Reflects the Self
Working out grounds me. The physical effort clears my head and puts me in a better state for the rest of the day. The gym has become a daily temple where I train, listen to music, reset small social moments and reflect on whatever I am learning about psychology, archetypes and meaning. I show up five to six days a week, and that consistency has shaped how I see myself. Training has made me feel like a Warrior Poet type, someone who builds resilience through discipline and movement.
I also think about how the body becomes part of identity. Physique, tattoos and clothing are all forms of expression. At the gym or the park, I notice what people react to, especially when I wear bright racer tanks or compression shorts, which is uncommon in Seattle. I do not mind standing out. It lets me lean into the Athlete Artist side of myself and shows how physical training expresses identity as much as it builds it.